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Have you ever screwed up badly in a way that you feel like it's virtually irreversible? I don't really want like any specific details about what happened, but I would at least like to know what did you do afterwards.
Uh, I think I have? Hard to tell. Anyhow I'm a little out of it. But in general you have to own up to it and try to recover as much as possible! Sorry if this doesn't help!
No this helped. I think I might not have done the best thing I could have done, but I think I did my best to own up to it. Really, I messed up badly, and I'm not sure how things will turn out from here on out. But at least I know I cannot keep repeating the same mistakes. I have to do something about myself. Thank you for answering.
I've felt this tons of times. And most of the time it IS because it's wholly irreversible and there is nothing I can do about it. I just kept going. Kept trying, or changed my strategy. Things always get better, I find.
Too many times, i can't even count them... love and friendship involved
I just kept going. Kept trying, or changed my strategy. Things always get better, I find. Yeah, that what I think works best. Gotta be patient then since things should eventually be better. Too many times, i can't even count them... love and friendship involved As I mentioned before, you do not need to go into detail about what happened. However, what you did to keep moving on would be nice to know. If you are cool with that, that is. And welcome to the Phansite.
Dead end negatives might not even be that either. I've had tons of bad experiences lead into surprisingly good ones, that never could've happened otherwise. Definitely you gotta keep going.
I definitely did. Won't tell ya what I did, but I did.