[SERIOUS TOPIC] Can I get some help here...

[SERIOUS TOPIC] Can I get some help here?

So me and my friends have this discord group chat we talk in, since using our normal texting group chat always lags my phone. Since it's a discord chat, anyone can change the name and title of it at any time. Me and most of my friends love to change the title and picture to stupid things, but one of my friends hates it's and always changes it to something she wants it to be, and then calls us children for having fun. How do I tell her to chill out without being rude? I don't wanna stop being friends with her, because shes honestly not a bad person, I just want her to stop doing this.

Tatsuya

Just tell her to stop, it's really not hard and honestly the only way to get a point like that across is bluntness. Trying to dance around and be "nice" will only give you more issues in the long run.

BonafideMonafide04

That's the thing, I always tell her to stop and it never works. Sometimes she lies, and other times she just tells me to stop instead.

Tatsuya

Sigh, alright. Make a server, restrict her permissions do away with the group chat. Brute force is after all always an option.

Cait_Sith

Maybe try talking it out, and if that doesn't work, go from there? Perhaps there's an underlying reason for this, whether it be a desire for order or something else.

BonafideMonafide04

Update on the situation: She has stopped, but only after making me mad enough to write a full on rant about it. I tried to be as nice as possible, but I really had to put her in her place. And to Cait, yeah, she is always saying that she wants to "control the situation" whenever she is doing anything with another person or a group. Me and my friends are trying to work on it, though.

Sarinman

Definitely make a server to fix this. Don't change the name/pfp that much to avoid her ire. Keep it the same thing.