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[Serious] How to ask someone out on a date?
Like the title says, I wanna ask someone out but have no idea how to go about it. Please don't reply with memes and jokes, I actually want real advice.
I say just wing it and ask the someone when you two are alone (or somewhere with not alot of people) and tell you what you fell about her and if she would like to go in a date
Depends on the person really. I'm not exactly the epitome of relationship advice but have confidence, be graceful, and respect their decision!
know how they feel about you beforehand.
Take it slow, don't try to rush into it. Be confident. If they say no, don't take it too hard.
A simple "Hey, I'm interested in you and no pressure, but I'd like to take you out on a date some time." is generally the most straight forward, and easiest way Figiting, getting overtly embarrassed, and inability to talk straight are massive turnoffs for people. If the person is legit, it'll either be a positive response, or if they are legit and reject you, they'll be honest "I'm sorry I'm not interested" or something along those lines. If that's the case, and be ready for that, just reply with a simple "Not a problem. I need to get going, but I'd like to still talk some time if you are free". This response will help you out of an unsavory situation, and eases the tension on both sides.
Be extremely blunt.
Oh you should be a cool guy, just be yourself and a ton of girls will pile you!! Trust me, a cool boi like me should know bro.
Be yourself! But if you ask me in a joking way, increase your charm.
Be flexible and be yourself. Don't be fake, there's no room for that in something romantic
Just say to him/her this: Wanna see my dick?
Oh no.
Ene
Girls like it when the guy approaches them in a non hostile manner and just casually tells them out of the earshot of everyone else. Every girl has a different way of going about things, but some things that all females agree on is ... 1. We appreciate when the guy is considerate enough to ask in private 2. We like when the guy is actually invested in the ask. As in not acting as if they were forced to do it or joking about dating as a whole. 3. Personal Space is key. Want a girl to not feel intimidated then just ease up on the space. 4. Don't offer gifts or anything from the get go. If the girl likes you back she will agree to a date without any needed compensation. Offering compensation from the start can lead to a position in which you are used or the girl ends up feeling uneasy. 5. Suggest a place that you know the girl will feel comfortable with on the first date. Please Please Please don't just ask her to a rare place that she probably never went to since this will make her feel really unsafe. Had this happen to me and I gave an automatic refusal, because I didn't even know the guy that well to follow him to such a place.
Oh no. OH YES!
Hoo boi.
I mean, you could just not. Be like me