I've been thinking about this same question for a while now. At the very least, I would love to sit down with Lavenza over a cup of tea and have a deep conversation with her. I would ask her about her hobbies, her thoughts, her general viewpoints on the world... various questions like those to let me grow closer to her on a mental level. I imagine her answers would be quite intriguing; she seems like such a bright and intelligent girl. In a perfect world, I would very much like to be more than just friends with her, but this would be a good starting point, I think.