@Soupicide
You have done a little role playing before, like the Danganronpa themed thing going on, or the ninja school, but you’re definitely not part of the problem.
Now as for the purpose of this thread, I’ll first address PMs, then the forums, same order Hikaru used
The time in PMs that Hikaru was describing, filled mostly with dumb or insensitive jokes, drove a lot of users, myself included, away from the PMs. It effectively became a second Anon chat, and while Anon is a good idea, we sure as hell don’t need two of them. This drove away many users, such as myself, from even wanting to touch PMs. Now that it’s over, we kinda need to find the will to come back to it.
On the Phorums, first, This isn’t technically a RP site, it basically was for a while, but it’s still a Forum.
To the more important issues, namely people leaving, I too think they have serious concerns about ways we could improve, however, no one is ever willing to voice their concerns, thus no improvement can be made. The unfortunate truth is that people like to feel victimized, and frequently do nothing to fix this situation.
While I would love to be able to make everyone happy, if they refuse to give us any sort of feedback, it is not my job to find whatever it is they might want.