1. Again, most of these cases are extremely optional, in Ohya’s case (the woman telling her boss she was dating a kid) it is expressly stated that they aren’t actually dating yet, it’s simply a cover-up for what she’s actually doing. If you didn’t catch that, you missed the whole point of her confidant.
As for the maid situation, this one is a cultural difference, in Japan part-time jobs such as a maid service are fairly common, its only as bad as you decide to make it.
2. We agree that what happened to Ryuji was tragic, so not much more to say here.
3. First off, you do realize Morgana is a guy, right? I mean technically they might be considered genderless due to their condition as a shapeshifter and embodiment of humanity’s hope or something The important part is that Morgana identifies as a guy, and their crush on Ann is played for laughs with Ann repeatedly rejecting him because, you know, he’s obviously not human. As for the rest of the mysogyny, the only extreme cases involve the minor villains, such as Haru’s father trying to marry her off to some rich guy, which is again the developers saying it is NOT ok
4. There hasn’t been a gay romance option since at least P3 (I cannot say for earlier as I have not played the first two), it just isn’t much of a thing in RPGs yet, much as I can complain about it in some cases, overall it’s nothing to make a fuss over.
Now, back to the two men, honestly I see them as part of the Ryuji problem, he just seems like a catalyst for tasteless jokes. Yeah, it’s dumb, but it’s hardly important, so I prefer to move on
Some of these complaints are making me wonder if this is intended as a joke or not, but for now I’ll continue taking it seriously