Awww...that would've been fun! My classmates and I wrote this really dumb short story, and I keep regretting not backing it up back in high school. It was so weird it was hilarious
While my advice is to stay away from the large servers considering how anxious you've said people make you, there are good times to be had. Maybe you should have your own server with like five other people max. Might be nice.
(Now off I go to sleep. Earlier than I have in a while.)
There are also multiple smaller discord groups for different things relating to the sites but the important ones are listed in the refrence page of the main discord. The memes Labrys posted originated from the discord Bluehairedemo and I run. Also, I'm not actually here.